Woman Who Makes Her Life

– I think your life had four stages – I was intrigued by my old friend. – If you want I will tell you.

Who would say “No” on such a statement? Of course, I was curious. It seems that you know yourself better than others. But it is interesting to learn how others see you. Sometimes in it you can find many surprises.

– The first stage was when you decided to get married – she began. – You found the right guy, you proposed to ​​him an engagement, got married and started to build a family and raise children. All in your life was according to plan, as you expected. It continued, till you have been a house-wife and could not find a job. In those dashing and hardest nineties you were raising children, and your husband and yourself. In the first and the last cases it was quite successful, but your husband did not really want to “grow up”!


The second part started when you got your first job after long-long break. It was a time of lack of money and total unemployment in the country, and you were willing to do any work. And first job that you started was a leader of the Auditing Department in a large trading company. Very soon you made a good career there and made ​​careers everywhere where you worked after it. The second stage is the working for “the boss” as an employee.

Third stage was when you studied as a psychologist and then as a business coach. You opened your first training-coaching company in 2004. This was the time you realized, your marriage was over. You’ve just started to move in new directions, and nobody or nothing could stop it.

Fourth stage was when you are looking for and find a man of your dream. You loved again and left Russia for the United States. This is not only a happy time personally, it’s a good time in a professional sense. You had a new on-line projects, and got Coaching Certificates in USA. At present time you have an expert status as life-coach and business-coach. You have written six books, lead your personal blogs, and have created your new career as realtor. And this period is continuing now.

She paused, and then finished:

– For me, you’ve always been a woman who makes her life. You do not expect gifts of fate. You soberly plan everything you want to receive, and then you begin to move toward those goals.

And you get what you want. Always!